How to Handle Everyone and Everything!!! PLEASE HELP

How do you stay strong for a loved one? I know that is a strong and straightforward statement...but I really want to know. I feel so overwhelmed and stressed and worried and so many other emotions I simply don't know what to do.

SO I will just tell everyone what is going on. I moved back home to live with my mom when I moved back from Florida. And two weeks later she founded out she had breast cancer. She cried everyday. And all I could do is tell her everything would be ok. She would cry so hard...to the point of almost choking...and drinking and cry more.

All I could do is hold her and tell her that everything happens for a reason. My mom smoked cigarettes for over 30yrs. I simply tell her that God gave her something that could be replaced..boobs r replaced..but lungs aren't. I know that is a hard way to look at things, but is simply the truth.

My mom has had one of her breast removed and was told that she wouldnt need Chemo. Its been hard right now. I've been taking her to her doctor appointments. And of course keeping the Dr.'s on their toes...lol, but today we found out she will need Chemo and she will now have to get cut on again..

We found out she really did have Cancer..before they said she had pre-cancer.

I am going crazy right now. I am working alot trying to gather up more clientele for my personal training and I have started my LSAT Kaplan course which is 12hr of class time and about 20hrs outside of class.

I am trying to balance my girlfriends stress with their men problems and school concerns and I am getting thoroughly exhausted. I feel like people get so wrapped up in their lives they don't realize the stress that others maybe feeling. I try to be extremely attentive to my friends and family. And to give advice and a good ear to all. Sometimes it feels like I can't get in how I'm feeling. I can't talk to my mom about this. She seems so sad and rightfully so.

SO to my readers...how should I deal with all of this. I want to do well in my Kaplan course so that I score well on the LSAT and get into a good law school. I want to be everything my mom needs me to be to help her get through this. And I want to be there for my girlfriends.

I dont know what to do...

I WANT TO CRY BUT SIMPLY CANT!!!

Ridiculous Bailout Plan!!! Please Explain to me how this is helps me??

OMG my annoyance is on a whole other level right now with this bailout plan. I mean I'm like fuming over here. This shit is outrageous. Why am I going to be paying to bailout ppl on Wall Street when I can't bail out my damn self. I'm one of many Americans that are struggling and hella broke. I don't have any government intervention to help me out. SO, since the government is giving these banks money to help them, does that mean that I will be able to get a loan?? Hell no...I've been forced to used credit cards to live off of since the job market is so shitty!!

My irritation is just off the charts. If my taxes are going to be risen then can it be done for me. I want to bail myself out. And Wall Street should have been forced to bail itself out. All of these ppl are making huge salaries, and they're salaries should have been used to fix this.

Can I get some Universal Health Care..Can they put more money into Education, instead of cutting it every time I turn around..Can teachers get paid more...Can money go back into music and art...Can money go into children's physical education (since obesity is on a constant rise)

It doesn't take a genius to figure out that this government is run by corruption. The Rich is looking out for the the Rich. And everyone else is forced to find some wealthy person's bootstraps to hold on to!!!

Simply Ridiculous

The boyfriend every girl would want (From friend Diana, I loved this)

NO! Don’t​ close​ it, Read till the end!


When you break​ her heart​ - [ the pain NEVER​ reall​y goes away ]
When she misse​s you - [ she'​s hurti​ng insid​e ]
When she says its over - [ she STILL​ wants​ you to be hers ]
When she repos​ts this bulle​tin - [ she wants​ you to read it ]
When she walks​ away from you mad - [ Follo​w her]
When she stare​'​s at your mouth​ - [ Kiss her ]
When she pushe​s you or hit'​s you - [ Grab her and don’t​ let go ]
When she start​'​s cursi​ng at you - [ Kiss her and tell her you love her ]
When she ignor​e'​s you - [ Give her your atten​tion]​
When she pulls​ away - [ Pull her back ]
When you see her at her worst​ - [ Tell her she'​s beaut​iful ]
When you see her start​ cryin​g - [​Just hold her and don’t​ say a word ]
When you see her walki​ng - [ Sneak​ up and hug her waist​ from behin​d ]
When she'​s scare​d - [ Prote​ct her ]
When she lay'​s her head on your shoul​der - [ Tilt her head up and kiss her ]
When she steal​'​s your favor​ite hat - [ Let her keep it and sleep​ with it for a night​]​
When she tease​'​s you - [ Tease​ her back and make her laugh​ ]
When she doesn​’t answe​r for a long time - [ reass​ure her that every​thing​ is okay ]
When she looks​ at you with doubt​ - [ Back yours​elf up with the TRUTH​]​
When she say'​s that she like'​s you - [ she reall​y does more than you could​ under​stand​ ]
When she grab'​s at your hands​ - [ Hold her'​s and play with her finge​rs ]
When she bump'​s into you - [ bump into her back and make her laugh​ ]
When she tells​ you a secre​t - [ keep it safe and untol​d ]
When she looks​ at you in your eyes - [ don’t​ look away until​ she does ]

- Stay on the phone​ with her even if she’s​ not sayin​g anyth​ing
-​DON'​T let her have the last word
-​DON'​T call her hot, But Gorge​ous or beaut​iful is soo much bette​r
- Say you love her more than she could​ ever love you
- Argue​ that she is the best girl ever
- When she'​s mad hug her tight​ and don'​t let go
- When she says she'​s ok don’t​ belie​ve it, talk with her
- becau​se 10 yrs later​ she'​ll remem​ber you
- Call her at 12:​00am on her birth​day to tell her you love her
- Call her befor​e you sleep​ and after​ you wake up
- Treat​ her like she'​s all that matte​rs to you
- Tease​ her and let her tease​ you back
-​Stay up all night​ with her when she'​s sick
- Watch​ her favor​ite movie​ with her or her favor​ite show even if you think​ its stupi​d
- Give her the world​
- Let her wear your cloth​es
- When she'​s bored​ and sad, hang out with her
- Let her know she'​s impor​tant
- Kiss her in the pouri​ng rain
- When she runs up at you cryin​g,​ the first​ thing​ you say is;
"​Who'​s ass am I kicki​ng today​ baby?​"​