Sunday, November 16, 2008

Strange Encounter


So, I recently stopped associating with this guy. We went on 2 dates nothing major, I was feeling him, but something that he did in his past really weighed on my mind. We first started talking in early spring, but I disappeared. I moved back home and hit him back to see how he had been. Why he got married. He knew the girl for only a few months and now he was on a date with me, obviously things weren't going well. The rationale behind it was that they wanted to live together and she wouldn't unless they were married, so he figured what the hell. That I could believe it. I was in denial for a hot minute. I thought he was play with me. I had to tell him that he wasnt very funny and he needed to stop immediately..HA HA u need to stop. So, I saw him about 2 more times. All a while I couldn't get past the fact he married. He got divorce, or I guess that would be an annulment from his newlywed wife.

I stopped talking to him like I started out with. I couldn't get past his view of marriage. Obviously, he didn't regard it as being too important. SO, what I really am trying to get to is that he send me a text talking about, "when I (me) said that we met for a reason, what was that?"

I simply feel like God brings people into our live for various reasons. I feel that we should learn something from every person that comes into our lives, rather they are around for 1 season or many seasons. And it's up to each of us to decipher what the moral of the story is of each encounter

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Yea something smells funny with that guys situation, it's best to drop him.